December 10, 2007♥
that trip
I am in a LDR and my girlfriend recently admitted that she had cheated on me. She said, and I believe her, that she really loves me and that this was a mistake she regrets. However, I can't take it out of my mind and forget about it. I am angry that she ruined the purity of our love story. It feels like it's no longer "a dream come true" — merely a watered down version of it because it is no longer "flawless." I feel like a pushover for not doing anything about it. (I'm really in love with her and I can't bring myself to break up just for that.) How can I forgive her? Will I always keep this poisonous thought inside? How can I prevent this from shadowing every aspect of our relationship? Am I "selling short" and blind to her untrustworthiness? How can I trust her again?
A sad loverboya second chance would be appreciated most. m still waiting. but letting go is never a considerable option/choice.
Babe, I'll never understand the whole "I'm too busy" thing. Sure, it's possible that he is really really busy and hardly has time to chat. But why can't he send you a text message at least? Those take literally 2 minutes. He could also call you and leave a message just saying he's thinking about you-literally 1 minute. Doesn't he get a lunch break?? Surely he can handle taking 2 minutes from that to make an effort in making you feel like he is thinking about you.I've been really busy at times. Maybe not as busy as him, but I know how it can get to not have time to talk to friends. But you know what? You should be a top priority in his life. Work is a priority, but you should be too. That's not a selfish thing to ask, that's just what happens when you are in a relationship with someone. You are not just a friend, you are his girlfriend. A simple 'I'm thinking about you' text message does not take much, especially when he knows what you are feeling.AnnK
PRECISELY! but im taking it too hard at the moment. i tot my patience &waits would serve as an advantage but.. :(
now before things are cleared, everything is toppled onto me. i was suffocated by his actions &now he suffocate me with my actions. he simply dont wanna see it in a positive aspect.
he's still not over the past &i feel he's even more paranoid than me! i only wanna know what he wants to be bac as before.
we both had a bad past.
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random!
&driving makes me crazy.
i wanna drive again.
the malaysia trip weeks bac.
no parents. no adults.FABULOUS!
&&can i be a kid like her?
